Friday, May 20, 2011
Wednesday, May 18, 2011
To Reach The < ever after > ....
There's a huge problem with the egyptian girls , i've noticed it through my friends ,that once they are graduated marriage becomes the goal , the target , the aime for every move they or their families do !
Sometimes it happens even before graduation , once they reach puberty ... FIRST i'm not against marriage , being a normal healthy girl i would love to get married , but it's not my goal , let's say it's a way to live with someone you love , to live better and happier .. it's a way not a goal ..
Have you ever thought about this word?? it means AS LONG AS YOU LIVE FROM THIS MOMENT ... then think of that meaning now spending your life with the wrong person or let's say an ordinary person or sometimes a stranger , how could you bear it ?
Have you noticed most of the marriages around you? people sometimes live under one roof as strangers , sometimes they hate eachothers after some time .. imagine that you are sleeping with the enemy !!! creepy , na?? Yet all families once their girl reaches adolcence all their comments , hopes, moves , even relations focus only on one target ( 3arees kwais ) .
Ok , who wouldn't like to have (3arees kwais) but what are the parameteres?
I like a line from the movie Sleepless In Seattle it says ( marriage is hard as itself without adding low expectations to it ) true, true .. bottom line get married because you want to marry THIS particular person , you want to spend your life with her/him .. this one and nobody else .. Once you do this , you will realize the meaning of this word < ever after > and you will bear it happily.
Sometimes it happens even before graduation , once they reach puberty ... FIRST i'm not against marriage , being a normal healthy girl i would love to get married , but it's not my goal , let's say it's a way to live with someone you love , to live better and happier .. it's a way not a goal ..
Have you ever thought about this word
Have you noticed most of the marriages around you? people sometimes live under one roof as strangers , sometimes they hate eachothers after some time .. imagine that you are sleeping with the enemy !!! creepy , na?? Yet all families once their girl reaches adolcence all their comments , hopes, moves , even relations focus only on one target ( 3arees kwais ) .
Ok , who wouldn't like to have (3arees kwais) but what are the parameteres?
I like a line from the movie Sleepless In Seattle it says ( marriage is hard as itself without adding low expectations to it ) true, true .. bottom line get married because you want to marry THIS particular person , you want to spend your life with her/him .. this one and nobody else .. Once you do this , you will realize the meaning of this word < ever after > and you will bear it happily.
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